Experiencing loneliness can result in feeling invisible and insignificant and may lead to isolation. According to The Cigna Group, around 50% of the adult American population reported experiencing loneliness before the COVID-19 pandemic.
Social disconnection has a negative impact on the physical and emotional health of individuals as well as the community. The U.S. Surgeon General states that loneliness is associated with a higher risk of cardiovascular disease, dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and premature death.
This letter from the surgeon general compares the mortality impact of being socially disconnected to that caused by smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day and that the societal impact may be experienced in schools, workplaces, and civic organizations through diminished performance, decreased productivity, and low engagement.
Understanding Loneliness and Isolation
Loneliness is an emotional response to isolation or lack of companionship, while isolation is being separated from others – physically or socially. These experiences are not necessarily synonymous, as one can feel lonely in a crowd or content in solitude. However, sustained loneliness and isolation are concerning due to their detrimental mental and physical health effects. The official definitions are as follows:
- Loneliness is a subjective distressing experience resulting from perceived isolation or inadequate meaningful connections, where inadequate refers to the discrepancy or unmet need between an individual’s preferred and actual experience (source).
- Social isolation is objectively having few social relationships, social roles, group memberships, and infrequent social interaction (source).

The Importance of Discussing Loneliness and Isolation
Discussing loneliness and isolation is crucial, especially in today’s technology-driven world, where virtual interactions often replace face-to-face connections. Bringing these issues to the forefront can help de-stigmatize them and encourage individuals to seek help. The conversation around loneliness and isolation also fosters a societal understanding, aiding in the development of inclusive communities, workplaces, and policies. Addressing this growing epidemic is not just about individual well-being but also about the collective health of our society.
Impact on Health, Economy, and Society
Loneliness and isolation can severely affect one’s health, the economy, and society. Numerous studies highlight the significant impact of loneliness and isolation. These studies include the following findings:
- A meta-analytic review completed in 2015 reported that loneliness can increase the risk of premature death by 26% and social isolation by 29% (source).
- The lack of social connection may cause an impact on an individual’s immunity by increasing susceptibility to viruses and respiratory illnesses (source).
- Social isolation among older adults accounts for an estimated $6.7 billion in excess Medicare annual spending due to hospital and nursing facility expenses (source).
- Social isolation in the community has directly impacted the U.S. economy, resulting in a $154 billion cost to employers due to stress-related absenteeism connected to loneliness (source).
The Power of Community and Social Connection
It is vital that we, as a community, take action in a proactive approach to living a happy, fulfilled life in all areas, including work, home, education, and health. Social connection may hold the key to enhancing life satisfaction. With the rise in technology and social media, it may come as a surprise that individuals are experiencing loneliness more than ever before. However, virtual connections do not provide the same emotional support and intimacy as face-to-face relationships.
Creating strong bonds with others can reduce stress levels, improve overall well-being, and prolong life expectancy. The power of community plays an essential role in supporting individuals through life’s challenges. Being a part of a community can inspire creativity, improve decision-making skills, and increase feelings of belonging. It is clear that social connection goes beyond just having people around; it provides positive health benefits and increases quality of life.
There are various ways to get involved within your community, such as volunteering, joining local clubs, or attending events. These opportunities provide a sense of belonging and promote social connections with like-minded individuals. Additionally, reaching out to those who may be socially isolated in your neighborhood can significantly impact their mental health and well-being.

A Call to Action: Simple Ways to Strengthen Connections
Awareness is the first step in recovery from any ailment. Awareness of loneliness and isolation can help people consider the impact this has on the lives of individuals. You can answer this call to action by strengthening your relationships and connections with others. Improving human connection can be as simple as the following:
- Answering that call from your loved one.
- Performing an act of kindness like holding the door open for a stranger.
- Giving your full and undivided attention when gathering with friends.
- Making time for sharing a coffee or meal with someone.
What’s Next
Building strong connections and cultivating a sense of community can have numerous benefits beyond just improving one’s well-being. It can also lead to positive changes within the larger society, creating a ripple effect that spreads positivity and support among individuals. Here’s what to do next:
- Get Involved. Start with your loved ones. Reach out to communicate, ask how they are doing, and share of yourself: How are you doing? Make plans to show up at special events and gatherings. Ask for help if you find it challenging to do it alone.
- Volunteer. You can offer to help a friend in need or someone experiencing hardship. The communities around you have many opportunities to volunteer at local parishes, soup kitchens, food pantries, your children’s school or sporting events, other social service agencies, libraries, or events sponsored by local governments.
- Go beyond. Look up your community’s event calendar and show up for events. Think about programs or events you would like to attend but may not exist. How can you make some of those safe, healthy events happen?
The first step may be the hardest but gets easier with time. Remember that it is not about how many people you know but rather about the quality of connections you have with those around you. Every little action makes a difference and creates a more connected, supportive, and healthy community. Let’s strengthen our human connections, one small step at a time!
Reach out to Family Counseling Service for help
If you are struggling with your mental health, getting the help you need from a qualified mental health provider is important. Family Counseling Service is here to help. Call us at 630-844-2662 or contact us online to schedule individual therapy and give yourself permission to take care of yourself.








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